Friday, March 26, 2010

Which strap-on toys are hot and which are not?

Strap Ons

There are a number of strap on toys available on the market, so you are really spoiled for choice if you are looking for a great sex toy. Most women get turned on by the intensely erotic plus size strap ons that come with eight inch jelly dongs. These dongs stay on firmly even when you are experiencing intense sexual excitement. This heightens your sexual pleasure and gives you immensely thrilling orgasms. Plus size strap ons have a leather waistband that can be easily adjusted to fit even a 48 inch waist. It comes with a metal ring that ensures the firmness and stability of the jelly dong.


The plus size strap on is popular with women because it is extremely comfortable and convenient to use. Another sex toy that is fast becoming popular with women is the heart strap on for anal and vaginal pleasure. The heart strap on comes with a removable rubber dong for maximum sexual pleasure. The adjustable PVC harness and 4-way nylon straps keep the dong firmly in place and allow you to move around freely.


Men can choose from the Dong Everlasting strap ons or the Vibrating Male Extension to fulfill their wildest sexual fantasies. These cool sex toys give you the strength to last longer in bed. For many people, strap ons are essential accessories for foreplay, masturbation, or for extended sex sessions with a partner. These sex toys enable you to explore your erogenous zones and identify the sexual cues that turn you on. Regular use of strap ons can add to the depth and intimacy of your relationship.


If you and your partner are thinking about exploring mutual anal play but can’t really figure out how, the Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Strap-On for Him can help you. This is a unique sex toy in many ways. It features a jelly dong that is completely free from phthalates. It has flexible elastic straps as well as a secure harness for greater firmness and stability. Another advantage of this device is that it comes with a removable wireless vibrating bullet if you ever want to keep it stationary. The jelly dong curves strategically and is held in place with an adjustable but secure harness that enables you to focus on the main action.


Strap on dildos are amazing sex toys that help you and your partner fulfill your most intimate sexual desires. Men use strap on dildos for the added pleasure of having a bigger penis. Women too can use strap ons for switching gender roles in the bedroom. Strap on sex toys can be used for vaginal as well as for anal intercourse.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Choose the right strap on toy – It will help you use it better! - 2

Fitting the dildo correctly

Strap on toys are available in the form of a kit. This includes the dildo that needs to be fitted to the triangular or rectangular front piece of the harness. Usually, the front piece has a special opening or an O ring, and the dildo needs to be slipped through this O ring. Follow the instructions to the T, while fitting the dildo. It’s the dildo that is the key to this sex toy; and strap on dildos with an improperly inserted dildo are no fun at all.

Optimizing the use

Strapons need to be used with care. If you are a first time user, it’s important that you start small and slow. Avoid vigorous thrusts at the beginning. Pick up speed slowly and gradually. Rather then you thrusting, your partner should engulf the dildo. It’s the best way of using strap on dildos. The penetration is better and more comfortable this way. As you and your partner get more comfortable with the use of the strap on toy, you can start experimenting with the way you use it.

Monday, February 15, 2010

Choose the right strap on toy – It will help you use it better! - 1

If you want to use strapons and not go wrong, it’s important to choose the right one for your needs. Such toys are affordable, so over time you might see yourself collecting a range of strap on toys available on the market.

The right material

The right material is a pre-requisite to using strap on toys. The perfect material needs to be chosen, as you are going to wear it for an intense activity like sex. So, you need to make sure that your material is comfortable and fits you perfectly.

The harness

You should choose the right harness when it comes to strap on dildos. There are various types of harnesses that you can choose from including crotch less strap on harness, 4 way adjustable harness, thong style harness, vibrating dildo harness, jock style harness, hollow harness, realistic penis harnesses amongst various other sexy looking innovative options. The key is to look at your comfort in terms of the fact that strapons must be a snug fit, neither too tight nor too lose.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Tips for Anal Toy Virgin

Anal sex is not a subject of taboo now as it earlier was, moreover it is not just a pleasure form for homosexuals or bisexual men but women and heterosexual couples can also explore the delights that this form of intercourse has to offer.

When you have considered to try anal sex now, than you should get a sex toy specially designed for this and depending on what you are trying to achieve depends on the toy you buy so be very careful when you opt for one.

So whether you are a newbie or experienced player , you can use our sex toy selector, a unique interactive questionnaire that will take you to the anal sex toys that best suit your own criteria and enhance the anal pleasures.

Or you can also decide from our detailed information which type of Anal Sex Toy best suits your own needs.

Anal Beads

Anal Beads are a very good place to start your anal journeying, comprising several spheres attached to a cord, they are inserted before or during intercourse and slowly or quickly removed. Depending on the Sex Toy Material that you choose will vary the firmness of the balls, and will change the experience that you have. For beginners, using softer jelly or other rubber balls will make the experience easier, and by far the greatest way to enjoy anal beads is to have them removed at the point of orgasm – whether you are male or female, the removal at the climax will intensify your orgasm exponentially. The Anal Bead string should be left exposed from the anus, this is there for removal and also ensures you cannot penetrate so deeply that they become lodged inside.

Anal Dildo

Anal Dildo’s are unlike normal dildo’s as they are specifically designed for Anal use. They typically offer a thinner shaft, that can be tapered so that the entry is easy and the further you insert, the greater the internal feeling of fullness. If you want to start trying anal sex for real, using an anal dildo is a great way to decide whether it is for you or not, as they can be used to simulate the real thing. There are now more and more Anal toys on the market that are designed to resemble the real thing, in look and feel, and as a beginner you should select an initial diameter of about 25mm (1”). Beginners should look for Anal Dildo’s that have a wide base, this is important for easy retrieval. Anal Dildo’s come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes, from parallel to tapered, to ribbed and textured. Ribbing and Texture provides greater sensations than smooth, and heavy ribbing has the same effect as Anal Beads if removed at the point of climax.

Prostate Toys

We carry a wide range of prostate toys, which includes the complete range of Nexus Massagers. These massagers are gaining more popularity than any other anal toys due to its unique features and design. Moreover these toys provide two in one functionality – along with the anal pleasure they also massage your prostate which is essential for men to keep away from the prostate diseases. And don't worry nexus has products which not only can be used by men, but also by women and as couples.

When you have decided on your anal toys you need to choose a lubricant that is right for the toy. For anal sex, silicone lubricants are recommended, they stay slippy for longer and don’t go tacky, but silicone lubricants are not suitable for toys that are made from a silicone material, so for silicone toys you should select a water-based lube.

So now that you have got so many tips why be a Virgin still!!

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Strap-ons to Get Anal Sex Differently

Anal sex is a sexual practice involving the introduction of the penis or a sex toy into the anus and rectum of the couple.

Records show that 40% of heterosexual couples have tried it once, and from 10% to 20% of couples practice it regularly - And with a sex toy .

In many cultures, anal sex is a taboo practice in fact is considered by many as unnatural and most religions condemn for being infertile. The truth is that sex is a practice that is widespread among homosexuals and among heterosexual couples. In the case of heterosexual couples, men who ask their partners to practice anal sex, there are statistics that say 75% of men like to practice anal sex with their partner, while only 23% of women are attracted to the idea of having anal sex with their partner. And this liking can be fulfilled by your most liked sex toys inserted in a strap on. Strapons are a goodie for homosexual as well as heterosexual couples to practice the reverse of roles along with the anal fun.

First for anal sex with strap on dildos you need a good lubricant. Move slowly and as you enter ask your partner, and slowly push doing circular movements, thus getting the area going back for sex. If you've never practiced it is highly advised to use a erotic toy, as they are softer and more practical,come in all sizes.

It is advisable to introduce the erotic toy slowly. Anal sex with strap on dildos can be a very enjoyable practice for both men and women.

Friday, October 3, 2008

Strap-On – A erotic connection for a couple

A strap-on dildo is a dildo designed to be worn by one partner and used to penetrate another partner vaginally, anally or orally, used by both heterosexual and homosexual couples. Most dildo users just use a regular dildo and guide it by hand. But strap-on sex offers a different experience. Here are some things which make this strap-on sex a erotic turn-on :

  • Strap-ons free the hands so they can be used to touch in all sorts of other sensual ways
  • With Strap-ons you can use your hips to have greater leverage, providing for a more intense experience.
  • Women can play at being men, thrusting their hips during intercourse the way men do.
  • Strap-ons allow men to play at having two erections simultaneously and having two penises opens the possibility of double penetration, both vaginal and anal at the same time.
  • Strap-ons can help compensate for erection problems.
  • The feel of wearing a harness can provide incredible sensations even without the dildo. Some women enjoy wearing harnesses alone under their clothing to raise the erotic temperature.
  • Strap-ons deepen couple intimacy by encouraging sexual experimentation and discussing how they want to enjoy these new possibilities. This also encourages partners to communicate more openly about sex, which can enhance intimacy and be highly arousing.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Break up the myths of strap on dildos to enhance your sexuality

Strap on dildos are just for homosexuals. Is this what you think? Than this is the biggest myth for the strap on dildos. Strap on dildos are not just for gay men who like to have anal penetrations or for lesbians who like to have penetrative sex. Even the heterosexuals can enjoy the pleasure of strap on dildos and enhance the level of intimacy. There are a lot more myths being pasted up with this adult toy. Some of these myths are like strap ons are used by women who like to be men, men who use strapon dildos are gay, men who like to be anally penetrated by women are abnormally submissive and many more . This is not at all true.

Wearing and using strap-ons has no psychological implications for women or men. Many women experience wearing a harness as a type of lingerie, something that makes them look and feel sexy - with the added bonus that the harness also opens up other erotic possibilities.

Anal sex gives an erotic and incredible sensations which if experienced can take you in a pleasure world. Also this anal penetration gives a prostate massage which is good medically too. So heterosexual men having strap on play are not gay but are adventurous who like to try out new things.

Strap-on play is not something the harness-wearer imposes on the recipient. A sign of good sex , including strap-on sex - is mutual consent. Couples may play at domination and submission, but that's all it is: play. Many times the recipient is the one in charge, directing the strap-on wearer to provide the erotic contact he or she craves. In other words, the strap-on wearer is not necessarily dominant, nor the recipient necessarily submissive.

Moreover strap-on dildos can be a good communication key for sex, as it helps the partners to guide each other what way and how he or she likes it. Also these strap on dildos are best friends of men who have erection problems. So come over these myths couples and experience the enjoyment of a Strap-On Play.